

The Power of Forgiving
What Is Forgiveness?
Forgiveness doesn't mean that you agree with what happened. It means that you have an understanding
of the situation that caused your hurt or anger, and you can let it go. Forgiveness is about taking back
your power!
By and large, people behave in the only ways they know how. Sometimes, they have been sent by the
universe to teach us a valuable though painful lesson through their behaviors.
Forgive them for the role they agreed to play.
Forgiveness must be true. It must come from the inside. The forgiveness must be so profound that the
situation that caused your hurt truly doesn't matter.
Through a carefully choreographed Hypnosis/NLP/Guided Imagery transformational session, you can
let go of the hurt. Yes, just like that, it goes! And forgiveness and understanding take its place.
When it's truly gone, you will know. You will feel lighter, more at peace. Carrying anger and resentment
with you is like carrying a sack of coal. It's dark and heavy, and weighs you down.
List 3 people you have not forgiven and what you have not forgiven them for. For each person and event,
perform the following steps:
1. Relax and enter the theater of your mind; now picture the situation that caused the need for
forgiveness. Picture yourself rising above it and seeing it from a new angle, from today's point of view.
2. Acknowledge your part in the situation. If you were a child at the time, note that, and allow that
although you felt the pain, the person giving the pain probably was behaving the only way they knew
how
3. Bring understanding to the situation. Comfort that child in your mind, and recognize that you are not
the powerless child anymore. You can make choices - adult choices - on how to feel and behave."
4. Bring closure to the situation by first forgiving yourself, then the other person. Acknowledge that life
has moved forward since the time of that event and you wish to let go of any anger or resentment."
Forgiveness is a powerful force that can liberate your soul. It brings a fresh start. Give yourself a gift.
Forgive someone today - yourself or someone else - and let the sunshine in!"
Forgiveness
Great Quotations
Quotes about Forgiving
Hannah Arendt
Without being forgiven, released from the consequences of what we have done, our capacity to act
would, as it were, be confined to a single
deed from which we could never recover; we would remain the victims of its consequences forever, not
unlike the sorcerer's apprentice, who lacked the magic formula to break the spell.
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Forgiveness is the key to action and freedom.
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Tian of Siam
Forgiveness is the scent that the flower leaves on the heel that crushed it.
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Josiah Bailey
They who forgive most shall be most forgiven.
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Henry Ward Beecher
God pardons like a mother, who kisses the offense into everlasting forgiveness.
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I can forgive, but I cannot forget" is only another way of saying, "I will not forgive."
Forgiveness ought to be like a canceled note--torn in two and burned up so that it never can be shown
against one.
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Paul Boese
Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.
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Les Brown
Forgive yourself for your faults and your mistakes and move on.
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E. H. Chapin
Never does the human soul appear so strong as when is foregoes revenge and dares to forgive an injury.
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Confucius
To be wronged is nothing unless you continue to remember it.
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Course in Miracles©
I could see peace instead of this.
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As forgiveness allows love to return to my awareness, I will see a world of
peace and safety and joy. Do you prefer that you be right or happy?
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Norman Cousins
Life is an adventure in forgiveness.
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John Dryden
Reason to rule, mercy to forgive: The first is law, the last prerogative.
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Louis Dudek
What is forgiven is usually well remembered.
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Earl of Chesterfield
Little vicious minds abound with anger and revenge and are incapable of feeling
the pleasure of forgiving their enemies
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Isaac Friedmann
Forgiveness is the sweetest revenge.
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Malcolm Forbes
Keeping score of old scores and scars, getting even and one-upping, always makes you less than you are.
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Robert Frost
If one by one we counted people out
For the least sin, it wouldn't take us long
To get so we had no one left to live with. For to be social is to be forgiving.
~~~~ Mahatma Gandhi
The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.
If we practice and eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth, soon the whole
world will be blind and toothless.
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George Herbert
He that cannot forgive others, breaks the bridge over which
he himself must pass if he would ever reach heaven; for everyone has need to be forgiven.
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